Understanding and Acceptance – Perspective from Jyotish
You are born in this life due to various reasons , both Good and Bad depending on your chart. During consultations you need to hear problems of people , understand them and then give the situation for the future and guide accordingly.
99% of the times people will come in problems and its extremely rare that someone is consulting when there is no problems in their life. Sometimes its difficult to accept the truth but you need to be prepared and understand that you will get something or lose something or someone only because of your Karmas from past life.
While your Rashi Chart will show the base actions and desires , not all of them will get fulfilled and that is something you need to come to terms with. In extreme cases such as Rahu in the 7th house and Ketu in Navansh Lagna – a person will be heavily obsessed into getting married but will not be able to do so and end up being unmarried as Married is denied and will bring only misery in his life.
Remedies can be given in such cases but the first thing you need to do is try to bring acceptance as if you yourself are not willing to accept the situation and stay adamant onto something which the universe is not allowing then even the remedies will not work for you are you are not even ready for them yet.
Recently there was a Matchmaking case in which both the Male and Female Natives Joined the meeting together and asking for Matchmaking – in their chart both the Lagna and the Navansh were 6/8 to each other which is a perfect combination of Incompatibility and Divorce. In that situations you have to be very strict and say that both of them will Marry someone else and should get separated because of their mismatch of energies — even though its difficult.
Before you consult any astrologer – try to go with the mentality that even if the answer is negative or positive , it will be the best way for fulfilling my Karmas in this life.
Below is a chart which came for a relationship consultation – The prediction which was made was “In the Dasha of Rahu you have atleast two relationship and Breakups and in your family there should be a suicide case and mental issues like dementia or skitzophrenia” — the native told me that there have been breakups in that Dasha and one of his Family member of Grandfather Jumped from a Building and committed suicide because he had mental issues.
The best suggestion for this chart is that to not go for marriage and although relationships will happen and you may be in a live-in situation , partners will go away eventually.
You can see that the Rashi chart itself the 7th lord it highly troubled but will give short relationships but being in the 12th navansh will lead to the partner going away. The Lagna and 8th exchange in the Navansh also shows a no Marriage and a non-ritualistic relationship scenario.
If you are going through troubles right now , be it marriage troubles, issues of health, career issues , etc – start by improving that signification in your daily life. Such as If you are going through of Career start cleaning your house on daily basis and start walking or cycling, if you are going through issues of Health offer water to Sun and start waking up early in morning and go for a Run, for Marriage issues take care of your family and the people in medical or resource need. Eventually once you do it for a month you will automatically start seeing positive changes in your life.
You are born because of both positive and negative karmas and Getting out of troubled patterns is difficult but atleast you can take the baby step initially and you will see that it will lead to immense positivity in long run.
 -This article was written by Lunar Consultant 5015