How Important Are Rituals? | Importance Of Marriage Rituals and Gift Exchanges

Today, we will discuss two major cases of marriage from consultations wherein in one of the case was an issue related to rituals not getting completed with respect to FAMILY DEITY and how it ended up in divorce while the second one will be a case where the person simply wore a WRONG STONE which when removed & RITUALS WERE MISSING – marriage life got absolutely fine.

The first case eventually had a second marriage and is now happily married.

In first case –

The above chart is having 2nd Lord Sun in debilitation in 4th house but in Navamsa chart, it gets connected with Saturn.

The rule is if Sun is in – amsha of Saturn or with Saturn and is associated with Sun, the person faces trouble in marriage due to doing wrong against family deity or neglecting rituals of family deity.

Additionally, it is 2nd Lord too and all of the circuit gets completed in sign of Libra but soon as as remedies the rituals of family were completed during last year auspicious Kartik month, and the person was suggested to visit Devi temple in NW direction and plant Bilva Tree during Shukla Shasti tithi and eventually exactly within 9 months the person gave a feedback below –

The relationship has considerably been stable, and also been able to settle down well and planning for the child – things are really going smooth.

In second case –

In this case, it was Scorpio rising with Venus in 7th house and going in 8th navansh meaning it is going in Gemini sign in Navamsa chart, so the person was wearing stones of Venus both Zircon and Diamond and wife was having troubles in conceiving and there were severe intimacy issues too effecting marriage life.

Upon getting the stone removed, the situation slightly got better but still there were rituals missing too at the time of marriage as you are aware how it can effect the overall quality of marriage.

Upon asking the native regarding rituals they said everything was done properly, but when it came to exchange of gifts as to what they have taken as there are something which you should take and which you shouldn’t they mentioned they exchanged watches.

You will be surprised to know that the ritual was simply to wear watches being exchanged as gift for a year post marriage as it was conveyed by the seniors and Pandits as per the family which they forgot to do and eventually the battery of both the watches too were not maintained which not only disturbed their marriage but also gave them troubles in conceiving child. (Ketu – being headless – karaka for children and also significator of 12th house)

Venus in Gemini navansh (hands) and natal chart was having Ketu in 3rd and when they were getting married too then also Ketu was transiting in 3rd house of husband’s chart.

These are very subtle yet important aspects to consider while looking at charts to resolve issues as there can be range of issues ranging at different levels and only possible to resolve with keen eyes and discussion using stunning sutras from our classics and experience.

I hope you found this small piece of article very interesting and will consider these points while looking at charts going forward.